There will be so many people in my children's lives that I want them to experience a bond with them right from the start. However, since I am now pregnant and have gestational diabetes this one will be harder to do as I have been told that a home birth could be risky and hospitals only allow two or three birthing partners. This means that only my partner and the two nanas will be able to be present. I still want everyone else to visit at the hospital as soon as possible, including my son's grandads, aunties and uncles, great grandma and grandad and other friends who will be present throughout his life. I have chosen this as one of my goals as I think it is really important for my son to form bonds with all the people who will be present in his life right from the start. I have chosen 4th November 2014 as the due date for my goal as this is the due date that has been worked out for the birth of my son.